People are under the impression that anyone can become a caregiver. In fact, some often believe it is the easiest job in the world. Some even suggest anyone who is married can take on the role of a caregiver. Not so. In addition, some caregivers, who go to school to become licensed, are sometimes under the impression that the license will “make them” uniquely qualified to be a caregiver. Not so. Just because you have a license does not mean you are able and qualified to are for all patients.
Occasionally caregivers learn to become caregivers by experience; however, experience does not always qualify a caregiver. Work experience dependability, timeliness and education are essential; however, there are other important qualities and elements that place some caregivers at a higher level, such as the following:
Qualities of a Caregiver
1. Empathy
A caregiver needs to have empathy. You cannot gain empathy just by getting a license and pretending that you care. Placing oneself in the position of patient, and understanding their perspective, gives a unique understanding. Don’t confuse sympathy with empathy. A qualified caregiver needs to be in tune with what the patient is going through.
2. Ability to Communicate
Communicating with a patient does not always mean to be able to chat and say hello and goodbye. Are you able to listen and provide feedback without judgment? When a patient calls you derogatory words, will you be able to take it and control yourself? A good communicator is one who listens to a patient regardless of “how” a patient is speaking. Patients will not always communicate with words. Sometimes they will only be able to communicate via their behavior, body language, sounds, whines, whimpers and moans. You have to have the courage to find out what they are saying. If you do not have the courage to communicate you might as well do something else.
3. Desire to Learn
Learning does not stop the day you have your first patient. In fact, learning should always be part of the caregiver’s compass. The day you are no longer interested in learning about your profession because you think you know -it all- is the day your curiosity, inquiry and knowledge cease to exist.
4. Knowing the Patient
Caregivers should be aware of their patient’s needs and care plan goals. However, knowing about the patient takes more than just reading about the patient’s diagnosis and medical history. There are psycho-social needs and goals that cannot be disregarded. As a caregiver, are you willing to interact with a patient? Do you understand the impact of social isolation?
5. Caregiver Flexibility: Illness is Not Always a Constant
A qualified caregiver should be able to understand that a patient’s illness is not always a constant. The caregiver should be able to change according to the patient’s status. In fact, he or she should be able to prepare and plan ahead, but never be surprised.
We hope this list of qualities will help you in identifying a qualified caregiver. Also, if you feel you may want to become a caregiver, do not hesitate to contact Senior Helpers.
